— About Sami —
The woman behind the work
Sami Wunder is an international dating and relationship coach for ambitious, high-achieving women.
AS FEATURED IN
ITV This Morning
People
New York Post
CNBC
NBC
20,000+
Clients served
130+
Countries
1,350+
Happy marriages and proposals
Her story, in her own words
Before
The girl who lost men in ten days
On paper I was excelling: a master’s in public policy and a gold medal in economics. In love, I could not keep a man for more than three weeks. After one more heartbreak, I started studying men, attraction and self-worth.
What I learned changed my life. I went from the girl who lost men in ten days to the girl high-quality men were chasing, begging for her time and attention. Men who treated me well stopped turning me off. They started to turn me on.
2013
Three weddings
Within nine months I had attracted, dated and got engaged to Christopher, a man who worships the ground I walk on, while rotational dating (not rotational sleeping with) other high-quality men.
Then we had three grand weddings (yes, really!): the first in Denmark in 2013, the second in India with Hindu rituals at the gorgeous Taj Palace hotel, and the third by the Baltic Sea on the German island of Rügen, with Christian rituals.
He is a practising Christian and I am a devoted Hindu. Our mother tongues are different and so are our cultures, and none of that matters when you build on a strong foundation of love. Our sons Aaron and Aditya followed.
2016
A brave decision
I left a career in international development to train as a relationship coach. I knew in my heart that I had found my life’s gift. Nobody in my family had heard of a love coach, and everyone thought I had gone nuts, given what a brilliant economics student I had been.
I believed in my gift anyway, and trained with top-level relationship gurus in the industry before setting up this company. Within a year, thanks to the rapid results my clients were getting, it had grown to multiple six figures.
Today
Elevate, twentieth edition
More than 20,000 clients later, the company is an 8-figure brand with an audience reaching 170,000 across 130 countries. Most of the women I work with do the work inside Elevate, my six-month coaching programme, with me and my team of certified coaches.
Christopher and I have been married for 13 years, and I am living the life I once only imagined in my dreams. Thanks to the work I teach today, I sustain this love without sabotaging it, something I used to be so good at.
What this work actually changes
Break the pattern
Stop choosing the same kind of man over and over.
Feel like the prize
Rebuild your confidence, in love and around men.
Receive, on your terms
Stop over-giving and let a good man show up for you.
Choose well
Have real choices in love, and pick the best man for you.
The method
Rotational dating
It is how I found Christopher, and it is a powerful dating method I teach clients who do not want to leap over many boyfriends before they get a forever commitment. Rotational dating, not rotational sleeping with: you date more than one high-quality man until one of them earns your commitment. You learn it in my online dating courses, or when you work with my team of relationship coaches.
Elevate – Next Level Love
For the woman who has mastered everything but love
Six months of live coaching with Sami and her team, for professional women ready for a man who adores them.
- Four live coaching calls a month
- Coach support six days a week
- 1,350+ happy marriages and proposals
Not sure yet? Book a free consultation with the team
A final note
Nothing is wrong with you. You just do not have the skills to succeed at love yet, and neither did I. The good news is that you can learn them.
Sami Wunder
Press and media
Sami speaks and writes on dating, feminine energy, long-term love, and building a business as a love coach.
On UK national TV
Her viral on-air conversation on ITV’s This Morning, and frequent invitations to BBC Radio and to Channel 5’s The Wright Stuff.
In the press
A sought-after expert, regularly in Business Insider, Forbes, TIME, Glamour, the Daily Mail, the Metro, Cosmopolitan and many more.
Who she works with
Her clients range from a Hollywood celebrity to UK TV stars, CEOs, bankers, lawyers, doctors, renowned authors and leading entrepreneurs.
Elevate: Next Level Love
You do not have to shrink to be loved
You just need a smarter way forward that works. Six months, a proven framework, and a team that remembers your story.